Always practice safer sex, which includes using condoms and plenty of water-based lube, and getting tested regularly for STIs and HIV.Tops: If it gets a little messy down there, be cool about it! It’s really no big deal.

Bottoms: Wash yourself out with an enema or simply using soap and water before sex to make things as clean as possible. If you’re in a longterm relationship, how do you keep the sex fun and exciting with each anniversary? Even the most seasoned casanovas need to know their fair share of sex positions to keep things interesting between the sheets, which is why we’ve put together this handy (and illustrated) guide to the best gay ones.īefore we get started, it’s important to establish some gay sex ground rules:

If you’re single, how do you prevent awkward and boring sex from ruining chemistry with that really cute guy from Grindr?